Out of town for App Camp for Girls, Mug Shots, and more

Hi all! I’m going to be in San Francisco for about a week, which means I won’t be as active about scheduling new clients. I might even skip recording Steady; it all depends on whether I can easily find a podcasting space in San Francisco. I’m an optimist, though—I’ll pack my mic! 🙂 As you probably know, I’ll be having a …

WWDC Mug Shots

Some of you know about Mug Shots, my events to help online dating clients get better pictures for their profiles. Some of you also know that I’m kind of a tech geek even when I’m not helping people wrangle their OkCupid profiles. I’ve been toying with the idea of hosting a WWDC-timed Mug Shots event for software developers who never …

Want to work with me for free‽

I’m starting a new project in early 2015, and you can totally take advantage—and get my coaching FOR FREE! If you’re the right fit, that is. 🙂 I’m launching a short podcast project in which I talk a few clients through their online dating and relationship struggles. In order to do this, I’m working with a select few clients for free …

Latest newsletter is out!

Are y’all on my newsletter? Just a reminder that you might want to be! August’s issue came out today, about dating in and out of your league, and how to optimize for dating certain physical traits you find desirable without sounding shallow and obsessed with appearances. Sounds useful, right? I hope it was. Check out that issue and many more topics …

NYC Online dating photo happy hour!

Hey folks! I’ll be on the east coast again this fall. This means you Eastern Time folks can get a piece of me! I don’t have time for individual client sessions, but I hope to host another online dating photo shoot happy hour. Woohoo! Everyone has just  been eating these up; they’re amazing for singles but they’re great for pretty much …

A briefcase with Cards Against Humanity, two iPads, several chargers, a deck of cards, a notepad and pen, and some business cards.

My online dating photo toolkit

Hey y’all! If you’re subscribed to my free monthly advice newsletter, then you probably saw that our photo hour is today and we still have a couple spots left. Please get in touch ASAP if you’d like to claim a seat! Since we’re planning on doing more of these events in more cities (stay tuned!), I wanted to show you guys …

Snappy Hour moved to 6/25

Hey lovebirds, thanks for your patience as I recuperated! I’m doing SO much better these days, as Twitter is my witnesss: I WISH I could have taken a selfie showing y’all how many awkward items I managed to carry up the stairs without dropping/spilling anything. — Virginia Roberts (@askvirginia) June 13, 2014 Anyway, for those of y’all interested in coming …

Surprise surgery :(

Hey lovebirds! My apologies if I’ve been a little less responsive than usual these past few days—I wound up having emergency surgery last week and I’m still kinda wonky from that whole ordeal. (As you can tell from the pic below, I am NOT a fan of surprise operations and neither is Grant.) All that said, I can’t begin to tell you …

Snappy Hour June 25th!

Hi y’all! Our inaugural Snappy Hour was great, in case you were wondering. 🙂 We’re planning on having another one on June 25th, from 4-6 in Fremont. If you’d like to reply, please get in touch! I don’t post 100% of the details because I don’t want any unannounced drop-ins to throw off our group’s vibe. Keeping it intimate and loose-yet-prepared is …